Maybe it’s the Midwest in me, but when I’m out in public I make an effort to smile and nod at people. Especially when riding my bike, I wave to fellow cyclists, dog walkers, and even joggers or runners. I guess, inately I want to acknowledge that we are all humans sharing this world.
So many times in our lives, we take possession of things that are not really ours. That biker is in ‘MY’ lane, that driver took ‘MY’ parking spot, that person took ‘MY’ last jelly filled donut at the grocery store.
In the end, we’re all in this together. When I ride around and see people out, it just makes me happy that people are enjoying the world; utilizing the same parks, trails, sidewalks, and roads that I’m using. These things aren’t ‘mine,’ they are ‘ours.’ So I wave, nod, or smile. We all need to get to work, get to appointments, and pick up groceries, we might as well just try to enjoy it instead of being grumpy. I will tell you, one leads to a more fulfilling life.